LOL…
What’s funny is that there are rabbinical writings going WAY back that specifically instruct Rabbis how to please their wives and thus how to instruct men how to as well.
They specifically go into not only caressing the both the inner and outer labia, but specifically to ensure that she has pleasure. IIRC, oral sex of the woman by the man is also covered in those texts.
The idea that we all got hip to “kissing on the lips” in the 80s or whatever is just so…Evangelical…
Sports is the crucible of human virtue. The distillate remains are human vice.