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  • #41313
    zn
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    Wednesday morning. Recovery, 3-4 weeks. She is being braver about that I think I would be. So far her biggest dismay has been learning that she can never sit with her legs crossed ever, ever again (it’s an old habit of hers.)

    To be a good partner I attended a 2-hour seminar on the process at her hospital the other night. Glad I did that, very informative.

    The plan is, this summer, we will both turn into dedicated morning long walkers. With my bad knee and her new hip, we should be quite a pair.

    #41316
    TSRF
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    Good luck to her, ZN. My sister, who actually lives in Portland, ME had to have her hip replaced 2 years ago on an emergency basis; she went for a walk in a nature area and slipped on a log and fractured her hip. Thankfully, she was found within the hour of it happening and was transported to the hospital where they did the procedure the next day.

    After a month or two of rehab, she is as good as she ever was.

    Maybe, while your wife goes in, you should have that knee of your done…

    #41331
    bnw
    Blocked

    Best of luck to your Mrs. on the surgery. Hope it goes well and full and speedy recovery. Didn’t know about the not being able to cross the legs thing. Is that Indian style crossed legs or one leg on top of the other? Did they say why no crossing legs after the surgery? Is it during recovery or forever?

    I’ve been a long morning walker most of the year for many years. I usually like to walk between freezing and 70 F. Summers of course warmer but try to walk in daylight.

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    #41337
    zn
    Moderator

    Is it during recovery or forever?

    It;s any kind, and it’s forever. It stresses the joint, apparently.

    Thanks to you and T both for the kind wishes btw, it’s appreciated.

    #41339
    Zooey
    Moderator

    Is this your dog?

    Seriously. Best wishes. Sounds undesirable.

    #41341
    zn
    Moderator

    Seriously. Best wishes. Sounds undesirable.

    I wouldn’t want to go through it, but, what I have learned talking to a lot of people and going to a seminar is that hip replacements are lightyears ahead of where they had been. It used to be you didn’t leave the hospital for weeks and then took a while to get up to speed again. Now you go home the 2nd day and with the new rehab techniques are functional again within 3-4 weeks.

    #41347
    PA Ram
    Participant

    Let me echo the others and wish her the best of luck.

    I work with a few guys who have had that done. They get around much better after the procedure. At least we have modern medicine that such a thing is even possible.

    "Reality is that which, when you stop believing in it, doesn't go away. " Philip K. Dick

    #41352
    bnw
    Blocked

    Is this your dog?

    Seriously. Best wishes. Sounds undesirable.

    That dog needs wheels.

    The upside to being a Rams fan is heartbreak.

    Sprinkles are for winners.

    #41373
    Eternal Ramnation
    Participant

    Posivibes sent hope it all goes well!

    #41385
    wv
    Participant

    Well, that sucks.

    Keep us updated.

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    #41388
    nittany ram
    Moderator

    Like PA, I know someone who had hip replacement surgery. After the procedure he was able to walk normally and without pain for the first time in his life. And this was 20 years ago so given the advancements since that time I think your wife should expect an excellent outcome.

    Best of luck.

    #41398
    Zooey
    Moderator

    Seriously. Best wishes. Sounds undesirable.

    I wouldn’t want to go through it, but, what I have learned talking to a lot of people and going to a seminar is that hip replacements are lightyears ahead of where they had been. It used to be you didn’t leave the hospital for weeks and then took a while to get up to speed again. Now you go home the 2nd day and with the new rehab techniques are functional again within 3-4 weeks.

    Yeah, but I’m just thinking, you and your knee, Margo and her hip, there just comes a time when you look around the room, and ya think, “My dream of playing in the NFL has passed me by.”

    At least you don’t have CTE, though. Not that you would get that from playing football, but…you know.

    #41414
    bnw
    Blocked

    At least you don’t have CTE, though. Not that you would get that from playing football, but…you know.

    My wife might get that from the headboard.

    The upside to being a Rams fan is heartbreak.

    Sprinkles are for winners.

    #41415
    TSRF
    Participant

    Good one, BNW!

    Viva Viagra!!

    #41421
    bnw
    Blocked

    Good one, BNW!

    Viva Viagra!!

    I am a Viagra free zone. Have a bottle of Cialis though haven’t taken one since I don’t need it. It was free and my Dr. wanted to see if BPH is an issue which I don’t think it is. Read everything in the product insert and the warning about loss of vision is from less oxygen making it to the optic nerve. No thanks won’t risk it. Especially if meant to be taken every day. I am on TRT which has worked great and recommend it especially if covered by insurance. I waited way too many years before I asked to be tested.

    The upside to being a Rams fan is heartbreak.

    Sprinkles are for winners.

    #41555
    zn
    Moderator

    Well surgery was today, it went well, visited the hospital twice, she comes home tomorrow or Friday, the rehab will get her up and going in a couple of weeks.

    Before today’s surgery, this year it would take her 45 seconds or so to come down a short flight of stairs. So now all that’s over…just the rehab.

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    #41561
    bnw
    Blocked

    Good news. I wish you both the best in her recovery.

    The upside to being a Rams fan is heartbreak.

    Sprinkles are for winners.

    #41652
    waterfield
    Participant

    Been there done that. Twice! Right total hip replaced at USC 25 years ago and left total hip replaced 5 years ago. I don’t understand the statement that she will not be able to cross her leg. My right hip does give me a problem but that was 25 years ago and only because they had to back in after measuring the rod before sewing me up and then had to shorten it because it was not identical to the normal left hip bone-otherwise you risk back and neck pain because of the lace of evenness. The more recent left hip replacement present no problems whatsoever as far as crossing my leg.

    As an aside I just was released from USC following a simple prostatectomy. Six hours surgery standing on my head while a robot assaults you. Six days in the hospital post surgery and now home for a few months of recovery.

    Give my best to your wife. I assume the surgery is needed due to arthritis and I can assure her the replacement surgery will remove that. But if it goes right she should not have any difficulty crossing her legs-especially if she sticks to the PT>

    #41656
    zn
    Moderator

    Give my best to your wife. I assume the surgery is needed due to arthritis and I can assure her the replacement surgery will remove that.

    Thanks for the kind words and info and I will pass them on. She had a rough morning this morning but that has passed it looks like. Otherwise, doing fine. On crossing legs…these doctors are super cautious, want the thing absolutely beyond doubt, so they go cautious maximimus. I am sorry to hear about your own recent surgical assault, but, sounds like you are fine now.

    #41659
    waterfield
    Participant

    My only suggestion is to get her up and walking as much as possible. I know she’s a nurse so she is aware of the need for the blood to circulate around the prosthesis. Not sure what the weather is like there but just waling around the house for as long as you can is extremely helpful. You don’t want her falling on ice or snow outside. Your right the replacement surgeries today are one day surgery and the next day home. The one I had 25 years ago I was in the hospital for a week and then came home with a huge bottle of vicodin. The most recent one-no pain medication. The difference is that some surgeons actually cut through the muscles to get to the big bone that holds the ball. The other and most recent methods is to merely separate the muscle without cutting through. The latter is less painful and faster recovery. I’m no surgeon but have gone through this same surgery twice. My mother actually went through it 3 times-one being a recession-with the last taking place in her early 90s.

    Hip replace surgery today is much simpler than ever before but still her pain is very normal and actually is part of the healing.

    My only regret -and its a small one-is that every since the first one I’ve never been able to ski with any degree of confidence. Always afraid I would fall and the damn prosthesis would come out.

    She is going to be just fine and I would not hesitate for her to take the pain medication because she needs to be pain free to be able to go through PT and walking around as much as possible.

    #41660
    PA Ram
    Participant

    As an aside I just was released from USC following a simple prostatectomy. Six hours surgery standing on my head while a robot assaults you. Six days in the hospital post surgery and now home for a few months of recovery.

    I have never had robot surgery–although I expect I probably will sometime in the future.
    That makes me cringe a bit.

    "Reality is that which, when you stop believing in it, doesn't go away. " Philip K. Dick

    #41662
    waterfield
    Participant

    If you have a very enlarged prostate gland that causes bladder retention (my case) you may need surgery to reduce the size of the gland. Most surgeons studied under the open surgery model and are uncomfortable in learning a new method. Those that have studied robotic urology surgery are more comfortable BUT you need a surgeon that does the procedure 2-3 times a week. If you have prostate cancer of the aggressive kind then the robotic method is better when it comes to post surgery issues such as incontinence, lack of sexual functions, etc. The reason is in the former the surgeon removes the prostate gland completely and in the open method is reaching down in a pool of blood to cut away at the various vessels to remove the gland. In the robotic method the entire procedure is shown on a huge 3D screen where the surgeon can see precisely where he is cutting.

    Now that I’ve made your night really comfortable you can go to sleep.

    #41664
    bnw
    Blocked

    Such a cringe worthy thread for my nether region.

    The upside to being a Rams fan is heartbreak.

    Sprinkles are for winners.

    #41813
    zn
    Moderator

    The girl is hobbling around on a walker and doing just fine.

    So…everything looks like smooth sailing.

    #41815
    TSRF
    Participant

    Good news!

    Isn’t it almost worse when a loved one needs surgery than when you do? And it’s almost like the build up to the surgery is worse than the actual event / aftermath.

    I’m glad you two have that behind you.

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